May 19, 2008
So Many Pregnancies, glad it's not me!
Just had to add that last line so no one thinks that I was included in the many pregnancies. Right now 3 of my closest friends are pregnant. Alyssa, Jessie and Jessica are all pregnant. I was telling Lou on Friday how crazy it was that they're all pregnant at the same time and then last night we get a message from Lou's sister saying that she's pregnant. I'm so happy for all of them. I am also so happy it's not me. Awhile back a girl in our ward questioned me for only wanting 2 kids. She went on and on about how 2 kids isn't enough. I'm a pretty calm person especially with people who are just acquaintances however I nearly lost my temper with this girl. She seriously said really about 5 times when I said I didn't want anymore kids, then she asked if I was going to adopt after I said no she asked about a dog, cat, fish, turtle etc. Who is she to tell me how many kids I need. Lou, Heavenly Father and I all made the decision together, who's to question us? I love my 2 kids, I love knowing my family is complete. I know that having 2 kids will help me be a great mom, if I had more than that I'd really question myself as a mom. Anyways congrats to all my good friends and Miriam who are pregnant.
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Amen sista! I think that people are too nosey and judgemental when it comes to issues of mothering...especially the number of children you choose to have, whether you choose to work or stay home, if you nurse or bottle feed, etc., etc.
When anyone hassles me about more kids, I tell them that if I had more it would be a waste because I would most likely smother them all in their sleep...that usually stops the lecture ;)
I don't know why people don't realize how rude they are being when they ask questions about your family and procreation. Um, hello, it's personal. I even get annoyed when people ask "Are you having any more?" I know that's not so serious, but I just don't think it's anyone's business but ours. (just for the record, I am talking about people we hardly know, I don't mind if it's my sister or best friend) So... when are you getting your turtle? Ha ha.
I can't believe how nosy people are!! I am asked ALL THE TIME from people (usually members, sadly) about when we're having another baby. I feel like saying, 'Hello?? Do you not understand what it takes for me to have a baby?? I almost killed myself and both my babies in the processes!' People are so dense. If that's your choice and you feel fulfilled, good for you!
congrats to all your girlfriends...it's a baby making year, I tell ya. i think most people i know have either had or will have a baby in the next little while. crazy. i think the decision on the number of kids is really personal and depends on so many factors-but mostly on what you and your husband and the Lord decide.
you and lou are smart and good and don't worry about what other people think. you're a great mom and your two kids are lucky to have you. love you!
karli
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